Create the Family you Desire
Master an easy-to-follow parenting system which creates the peaceful, happy home you want with cooperation and respect between ALL family members ……
in just 6 weeks!
Have You Ever Experienced This?
  • ​You find yourself continually nagging and it takes so much energy just to get your children  ready and off to school in the morning
  • ​Your children don't just listen or do the daily things we do every day - they need continual reminders
  • ​Everything is a power struggle, all goes well and then your children power struggle for seemingly no reason
  • ​It feels like your home isn't the happy, peaceful place you want it to be
  • ​You feel unseen, not respected as if your children don't hear you

What if it could be different?

Join me and get solutions to:

  • ​Understanding and managing your own emotions like frustration, impatience, shouting, and guilt to create lasting peace that does not impact your children negatively
  • ​Understanding how to get what you need even when your children are misbehaving or in the learning process
  • ​Diffuse power struggles easily 
  • ​A peaceful morning and evening routine
  • ​A proven system to develop self-responsibility in homework routines
  • ​Developing healthy sibling relationships without fighting and competition
  • ​Develop healthy emotional habits in your children so that they are able to handle life’s challenges
  • How to handle differences in personality types and parenting styles to get the results you want
  • ​Handling back chatting and harsh words
  • ​Developing your child’s way of thinking so they listen effortlessly
  • ​Give your children the skills they need to guarantee they will be happy and thrive in life
What are you waiting for?
Make 2021 the year you transform your relationship with your children.
“The past few weeks have been a learning curve of note. Gail is brilliant and thought-provoking as she leads you through plenty real-life situations, teaching you how to better handle parenting/teaching of our children. I sure learnt new ways to communicate and convey messages and lessons to our 21st Century children, who are far different to how we were growing up. 

I can say with confidence, her methods truly work! If you have the opportunity, I highly recommend signing up with her for a wonderful journey in Shifting your Perspective” 
  •  Michelle van Alphen, Teacher, Curro Rivonia
This Program Is The Ultimate Parent Support System Giving You:
  • ​Peace of mind that you have a proven system to manage and develop your children during all phases of their development
  • ​A way to create the love and connection you want with your children together with clear consistent boundaries
  • ​A deeper understanding of yourself and guaranteed ways to get what you need during the parenting journey
Who Is This Program For?

This program is built for you if you are:

  • ​A parent who is dedicated to give your children the best you possibly can
  • ​A parent who wants to guarantee that by the time your children are adults you have truly done all in your power to be the best influence
  • ​A parent who wants to know just how to balance putting in effective boundaries and developing a great relationship with your children at the same time
Ultimately this program is for parents who take the responsibility of parenting seriously and are eager to learn the skills to not only make their lives easier, but to guarantee their success in raising empowered, happy children. 

Whether you have angels for children or are really struggling, if you are ready to create the family you desire, this program is the proven way to create that happy family with respect and cooperation.

Here's exactly what you get...
Create the Family You Desire is an online program that gets you love, accountability and respect between all family members.
Ready To Dive In?
In just 6 weeks, you'll have such a sense of relief, 
knowing how to handle each situation with your child.

Knowing when and what to say in each moment!
Support Structures

6 Weeks of Program Material

  • Receive 6 weeks of custom & actionable video program materials that show you not just the ‘what’, but also the ‘how’ to take your parenting and discipline to the next level. 
  • ​Receive a workbook each week with practical steps to ensure your success (what questions to ask, what words to use to get the results you want).
  • ​Video content is available to listen to at any time and as many times as you need.

Access to a Community of Like-minded Parents

  • Access to a community of like-minded parents who are on the same journey as you! This is a space to share your story, learn from others, collaborate and stop by for inspiration, education and support.

Weekly Live Evening Group Coaching Sessions 

  • Have your burning questions answered and benefit from the challenges, progress and wins of other parents in our weekly live group live coaching sessions, where we delve deeper into each module’s content, to ensure you can practically apply what you are learning. Group sessions are recorded so that you can go back and watch them whenever you need to.

One Year’s Access to Program Material

  • Program material will always be available for you to re watch as you need it for one year from the start date of the program
  • ​ 6 strategic training modules to guarantee your parenting success and gain access to a group of like-minded parents
  • ​ Recorded lessons to listen to in a time that suits you with a workbook
  • ​ One year's access to recorded material
  • ​ Weekly live online group coaching sessions where you get all your questions answered
  • ​'Once off' features +++
  • ​ Make 3 payment over the course period
  • ​1st on Webinar
  • ​2nd on 30 April 2021
  • ​3rd on 30 May 2021
3 x R2,500
How is this program different (and better)?

I am not just a Life Coach, I have personally mastered what I teach

  • I became an expert in Parent Child Relationships through my personal journey. From a difficult, protected childhood I was determined to give my children all they needed to thrive in life. I was determined to have a good, close relationship with them.                                                                    My journey started with being divorced with 2 small children, one with special needs (whom I was told would never read or write). There was never a clear line between what my special needs son could understand and what was misbehavior. He challenged everything I knew. As a single parent I had to learn to balance time for myself, work and time for BOTH boys                                                                 

I give you not just the WHAT but also the HOW

  • There’s nothing more frustrating than being told what to do, and being left on your own to figure out the how. So this program will SHOW YOU exactly how to apply the strategies in your situations - I take you step-by-step through real situations

You get 18 year's experience of trial and error in a simple system

  • I went to a master NLP coach weekly for 10 years, I have studied and qualified as an NLP coach and have 18 years of experience with trial and error to master the techniques I teach. I have done many personal development and parenting courses and combined all this to give you a practical, easy, step by step system that works in your day to day interactions with your children

Who is Gail Friend ?

  • I am a mom of 2 boys who are now 21 and 24 years old. Family connection is especially important to me and always has been. That is what has led me to this work I am doing .
  • ​I have an unsatisfied hunger for learning, I am always reading and learning something new. That is what lead to the solutions I share.


“Shifting Perspective is a must have for all moms! I learned a lot, have a better approach to my parenting skills. I was taken through without being judged. Gail Friend you are awesome. Thank you so much” 
  •  Marsha Kgetsi, Mom
“For all moms, I would like to recommend Gail Friend who runs Shifting Perspective, great coaching for parents to improve the emotional wellbeing of their kids. At school, they get all sorts of feedback and it was important to me to learn the tools to get them to be emotionally aware and independent, so they can face life’s harsh comments on where you need to develop and know, they’re always OK.

Gail’s course on Creating the family you desire helped me and gave me lots of food for thought. If you want to grow happy, healthy and independent young adults, look at Gail’s website” 
  •  Katinka Pretorius, Mom
“I have recently completed Gail's parenting course and I really learnt a lot!!I am seeing things from a different angle and thereby approaching difficult /challenging situations in a new way and really seeing the change in how my son reacts, It is a work in progress but I am feeling less frustrated and more in control and I think this is being picked up by him and we more in sync than struggling through.

I want to say a big Thank you to Gail and all the other moms who shared their stories....and who I learnt from” 
  •  Elizabeth Hearn, Mom
What are you waiting for?
You can have the happy family relationships you want!

What Is The Time Frame Of The Course?

  • Our next 2021 program runs for 6 weeks, commencing on 3 May 2021. It will cover 6 actionable topics to drive a step-change in your family dynamics. This is an intensive program, which will transform your family relationships. We suggest you only join if you are ready to work through the content. We do not transfer parents to future cohorts.

What age do our children need to be for us to benefit from this program?

  • This program is designed for parents with children between the ages of 2 and 12 years old. All strategies can be applied to all ages, but the examples shared, and the group sessions are focused on these ages.

Do our children need to attend?

  • We suggest that you arrange for your children to be looked after during the live coaching sessions. That way you can put 100% focus on the learning and application of the strategies. The course content is developed in a way that you learn and build on your learning each week giving you time to practice strategies with your children and bring questions to the live sessions.

What if I miss a coaching session?

  • All live coaching sessions are recorded and available in your portal to listen to at a time that suites you. We encourage parents to attend all sessions and submit their questions to get the most out of the program.

When are the Live Group Coaching sessions?

  • Live group coaching sessions are 1,5 hours long and held via Zoom on Monday evenings between 19h30 and 21h00 through the duration of the course.

What if I fall behind?

  • We understand that learning parenting skills is not an overnight process – we also understand that each parent develops at their own pace! The good news is that you have access to all the content for 12 months from the start date, so if you fall behind you are welcome to work at your own pace and catch up in your own time.
  • ​We do however encourage you to stay up to date, and benefit from the group sessions and opportunity to ask questions in each application. All children and parents are different and being able to tweak the content to your specific situations enables better results.
  • ​ 6 strategic training modules to guarantee your parenting success and gain access to a group of like-minded parents
  • ​ Recorded lessons to listen to in a time that suits you with a workbook
  • ​ One year's access to recorded material
  • ​ Weekly live online group coaching sessions where you get all your questions answered
  • ​'Once off' features +++
  • ​ Make 3 payments over the course period
  • ​1st on webinar
  • ​2nd on 30 April 2021
  • ​3rd on 30 May 2021
3 x R2,500
2021 - Shifting Perspective - The Ultimate Parent Solution
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